Ok, I will play along on "laying low" a bit. However, I will paint a picture.
Let's say you are an employee that works for some company. If you are in the lower ranks, you can attempt to sanitize the web and expunge all traces of your existence. However, I have personal experience in finding blue-collar, deadbeat tenants, getting them served, winning, and then garnishing them. I don't get all of them but I get quite a few of them.
Yes, they try to dodge service and they succeed for a long while but then one day, they slip up and bam they get found and served. The issue is, for me, it is effortless to ping my people with a phone call or email once every 2 months. But the other side is constantly looking over their shoulders trying to lay low. It is very difficult to be vigilant 24-hours a day, 7-days a week looking over your shoulder.
The above scenario assumes you can stay low. If you are a higher-level managerial type or have a business, it is much more challenging to lay low because they can send things to the workplace or employer. (I've done this too).
Don't fool yourself, process servers work inexpensively around $50-$60 per serve (maybe a bit more depending on where you live). So, the serve itself is not expensive, only the lawsuit filing fee and the lawyer fee is.
What concerns me the most about the avoidance strategy is that it can spur your case on more. I tell people "your case isn't that special" but if you persistently avoid it, you might become "more special". People who avoid me sometimes succeed but I make a point to nail them with EVERYTHING than if they had made it easy for me.
Having said all that, Getty is run by a bunch of hourly collection clerks that have an incentive program. They probably will go after low-hanging fruit. However, misdirected and forwarding addresses aren't difficult to find.
I am not opposed to buying time to help run the clock out or to get educated. But 3 years is a long period of time to try to run out. Certainly, I wouldn't go out of my way to correct the issue but at some point you have to decide if the hidden costs of living underground is worth it.
Believe it or not, I don't like fights or conflict. I do my best to stay out of them. But if dragged into it, I am a big believe of "shock and awe" and using "overwhelming force" otherwise it becomes like Chinese water torture and gets dragged out infinitum.
I most whole-heartedly agree with what you said regarding "winning". So many don't seem to get it. Some want to keep trying to outdebate the other side and force them into submission or acknowledgment. They hate the uncertainty and it eats them up alive. And they end up showing their weakness because they are practically begging the other side for a settlement.
And regarding the "head on" approach, I don't necessarily say "screw you, come and get me" (at least to anyone's face). If you read my responses, I never took that approach. Mine was much more subtle. I certainly didn't invite or challenge anyone to come after me. But I do think some people really do literally say "screw you, if you want me then come get me". That is simply stupid and baiting someone.
I will confess that one rule probably doesn't fit all situations and circumstances. Gosh knows I have heard all kinds of stories and scenarios since 2008.
For me, I guess I don't think I could ever get away with running because I am too easy to find and would eventually get caught. I don't think I could be that vigilant always looking over my shoulders in that way. So, I just tell myself "I will have to face the music". Hence, I feel the need to take things head on.
The original poster probably needs to stay vigilant. His address will eventually get found. I do agree that without that signed first contact, he is in good shape. It should be easy to NOT sign a package or letter without checking to see who it is from first. It is a bit more difficult coordinating that effort if he has family members though that can sign for it. They would have to stay vigilant as well.
I know that "laying low" isn't a very popular concept on the forum.
But, it`s the first step that everyone should take if possible.
We need to keep in mind what "winning" really means. It means not paying the copyright trolls.
"Facing it head on" as some have previously stated might mean that you get sued (thanks for your honesty!).
Then, you'll end up paying 100 dollars to talk to a lawyer for 30 minutes, paying a retainer of thousands, and 300 dollars hourly (or more for a "good" lawyer) afterwards.
So, now is the time to very careful what you sign for, watch out for "weird" phone calls, and get your workplace info off of LinkedIn.
Others feel that getting their name and story out there has value.
But that only has value if you`re a crusader like Matt, or a figure that the public will have sympathy for.
Besides, we`ve know for years what the trolls have been doing.
S.G.