I don't have a vested interest one way or another what people do. What I do care about is telling the truth and dispelling so-called common knowledge. You make broad statements that is untrue in our corner of the world.
People always say "get a lawyer" and listen to them UNLESS someone listens to or hires Oscar Michelen. He isn't here on the ELI Forums very much anymore but I am still in regular contact with him over different matters. We have a few disagreements on smaller points but I don't think I am out of line when I say he agrees with some of the "street" knowledge/tactics ELI shares and discusses here. It may be edgy but not criminal or illegal. Oscar doesn't try to reel everyone into hire him. He actually dissuades some people because he knows the scam well and thinks of the victims instead of his wallet.
Some lawyers hate some of the ideas and knowledge we share because it makes their job much harder and it plays outside the system. Lawyers prefer people pay and use the system. The system has its place. It has its good points and bad points.
I have lawyer friends and associates. I respect them highly but I have been in business and lived "on the streets" long enough to see the pros and cons, strengths and weaknesses of lawyers. I have also seen enough to know that many problems get resolved not by trying to "outlawyering" your opponent.
Sometimes it is "out-spining" them (as in "get a spine"). Lawyers work for clients. Clients don't work for lawyers. People forget that.
This is the deal, hiring a lawyer is a luxury. It requires money. It also sometimes requires you to subvert your independence and options. Small-timers who can't afford lawyers have to pursue non-lawyer options and we openly discuss them here on ELI.
You keep saying you have little money but apparently that must not be true because you seem so eager to pay into a system in which many have not had to. If the stress and fear is too much to bear, I understand. Do what you need to do. But that is YOUR issue and choice. But for others, standing your ground and not getting rolled over and falling into extortionate demands is their choice. And yes, they do bear the small risk for standing their ground.
I am not telling you to not settle or not engage. I am not telling you to ignore either. I am also not telling you to not hire a lawyer. After all, we have Oscar Michelen and his defense letter program.
What I object to are your sweeping statements and assumptions which are greatly flawed. I don't mean to sound harsh but I feel strongly in my position.
As Stinger has said, I don't follow conventional wisdom. I do try to think creatively and unorthodox ways. We even talk about edgy ideas but I keep it in the "legal" column as in NOT CRIMINAL ACTIONS.
Ignoring a demand or ignoring a lawsuit would make most lawyers scream and run for the hills BUT IT AIN'T CRIMINAL. And sometimes, it actually works and solves the problem much more quickly and efficiently than any lawyer could make it!
Just like NOT paying a debt. In the U.S., there are no debtor prisons or half the the U.S. population and all college graduates would be in jail. It doesn't mean I endorse not paying debts either.
All I am saying is that the ELI Forums is a place for finer discussions and thinking when it comes to legalistic issues as copyright infringement enforcement issues.
I encourage people to think "rebelliously" and with a protest mindset. And for me personally and many people, it works quite well.
And stop blindly believing everything an extortion letter says. Just because it says 30-days, does not make it true. You have fallen into the trap. You seem to believe everything the letter says.
Here's the thing, some people suggest I just ignore them. Do you seriously think they're going to ignore me for ignoring them? Today I went to two attorney websites that specialize in the same stuff you do. Both of them give some basic do's and don'ts (on their websites) on how to handle situations like this. They both say...do not ignore a letter from an attorney for copyright infringement. Naturally, they both suggest getting a lawyer to represent them. They both agree that if you do it on your own then let the attorney know the picture has been removed from the website and offer to pay whatever the going rate is for using the photo. They warn not to give anymore information than that. I think that's wise advice and I'm not sure why some people think ignoring this is a good option to take.
Regardless, I think I need to step back now and process all this information I have and take a couple of days to decide how to deal with this. I read through the letter again and they give 30 days to respond. I have plenty of time to figure this out and hopefully I make the right decision.